Presumption of a disposable income, able-bodied access and ability to use any tool, while prioritizing heterosexual monogamy, whiteness and cis identity, all create a sex toy culture that rejects and erases marginalized users.

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Many of us do not know what a private body looks like.

The search for more inclusive polyamorous options on dating sites.

It creates an environment where a woman’s sexuality is an item for public consumption, a thing which can be approved of or rejected, valued or denigrated by the community.

Men walk away virtually unscathed by their acts of extra-marital sexuality. Women get contempt and professional backlash.

There is another sexual revolution happening, and it's online now.

How is this environment fair? And who really pays in the end?

All of the efforts to get more women into tech will fail as long as the culture assumes that their labor is less valuable.