I exist for men’s own sexual self-exploration, a freak without my own right to privacy or freedom from public shame, a resource for their own self-discovery -- that like all things in an on-demand world, they feel entitled to access at any time.

My hope is that we can allow folks to express the truths of their existence and be their full selves while seeking to connect with others.

I spoke to the founders and editors of Femsplain, CirclePlus.co, Black Girl Nerds, Thurst and Autostraddle to find out what it takes to create safe spaces online.

Go out into the twitters. Become more gay. More powerful!

The search for more inclusive polyamorous options on dating sites.

What gives men the idea that sending these kinds of sexually explicit messages off-the-bat, unsolicited, and before getting to know a person is okay?

Gay technology in the South and how it’s changing the ways we live and date.

Five Decades of Gay Technology and Where It’s Going Next