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Ava Ex Machina

Ava Ex Machina is a lifestyle femdom who works in product at a San Francisco startup. She hosts and organizes events for dominant women in the Bay Area, and is a passionate activist and fundraiser for reproductive rights. A memoirist, she is working on turning her Medium publication into a book, which you can support at Patreon.


The BDSM flag flying in the Castro, Twin Peaks rising behind it.

On the Risks of Being Kinky and Female in Tech

I exist for men’s own sexual self-exploration, a freak without my own right to privacy or freedom from public shame, a resource for their own self-discovery -- that like all things in an on-demand world, they feel entitled to access at any time.